Life is meant to be lived as you see fit, not as everyone else wants you to live it. I talk about this in all my personal development posts, and I hope you will choose wisely.
That’s why I want to make it clear from the beginning that all these things from the list of the things you have to try at least once in your lifetime are suggestions, but please DO adapt them to your condition, desires and wants.
Remember that if you’re happy, everyone is happy.
Without trying to make this post longer than it should be, I want to announce 51 Things you have to try at least once in your lifetime, mostly travel-related experiences (because that’s what I know best), but which also have a deeper emotional meaning.
I’m all about inner journeys and experiencing feelings, so here’s to a life worth living.
What are the 51 Things You Have to Try at Least Once in Your Lifetime?
Obviously, I can only start with the one that got me started this travel blog in the first place. Can you guess what it is? The rest of the things are in no particular order, so make sure you read until the end!
1 Travel Solo
Travelling solo is one of the best things I did for my soul and personal development, and I believe this can also work for others.
Travelling alone was the first step I (accidentally) took to start my self-improvement journey and it’s the first thing I recommend to anyone I meet.
If you’ve been following my blog for a while now, you must be sick of hearing this story, but it’s real and travelling is a remarkable tool to help with the journey of personal development.
2 Ride in a hot air balloon
Being up in the air, hearing nothing more than your own breath and a weird silence all around you, makes you realizes how much you belong to this world.
Cappadocia is a fascinating area that is also famous for its hot air balloons rising at sunrise (so grateful I’ve been able to experience a ride in a hot air balloon in Cappadocia, Turkey), but there are other places in this world where you can experience the silence of the air.
3 Go snorkelling
I used to be somehow afraid of drowning, but the fear was mostly in my head. To be completely honest, I still don’t know how to properly swim. I mostly mimic a frog when I move my limbs in the water.
But after overcoming all fears (or better said, jumping in the water before knowing how to put on the snorkelling kit), it all tends to fly away, and you get mesmerised by the aquatic vegetation and life.
The light changes, the temperature changes, the distances and angles change. The entire world changes, although it is just as it was before you got your head in the water. Make sure you go out with others and that someone is watching you (especially if you can’t swim that well).
4 Go on an international road trip
Go on a road trip at least once in your lifetime.
Go with your best friends, with your partner, or with your kids. Establish a route, make some plans but let your journey be flexible so you can embrace the unexpected and go.
I had no idea the satisfaction and confidence boost I will get from driving from Romania all the way to Tallinn and back (I call it the Baltic road trip), but it was the most fabulous road trip so far and can’t wait for the next one.
5 Visit a world wonder
I’m not going to choose one and say “Go see this thing” because it’s stupid. It’s a matter of location, budget and personal aspirations that will make you choose to visit the pyramids or the Taj Mahal.
The point is to go and see with your own eyes something that everyone raves about and experience it first had, not through what others are saying about it.
6 Go Backpacking
There’s no other thing you can do than to try to live out of a backpack to realise how few things you actually need on a day to day basis. This is the first step to minimalism if you ask me.
Also, backpacking is a necessary decision if you want to travel cheap anywhere.
7 Drive in a foreign country
Driving is one of the great ways to see most countries in Europe and not only. Make sure you are at least two in the car, and the cost will be worth the experience.
Driving in Jordan was a terrifying thought (at first) that turned out to be the best way to see that beautiful land.
8 Live abroad and embrace a different culture
This is how it all started for me.
And I believe it can have a significant impact on anyone looking to start an inner journey, cultivate self-confidence and empathy. I lived in Turkey, during the Ramadan in 2015. It was a truly enlightening experience.
I do believe it’s important to choose a country with more cultural differences and to try to be friends with locals and understand the way they live life.
9 Learn another language
Language is not only a means of communication but also a way of thinking and understanding life.
Different languages have untranslatable concepts and phrases, that can aid your journey through life.
I struggled to learn German for years, and even after living in Austria, I can only say a few sentences. But sometimes you learn the bare minimum in a short time, when that’s the only way to communicated (I was forced to learn some Turkish (when I lived in Turkey) because there weren’t so many people speaking English).
10 Take a intercontinental flight
I have to be honest and say that this will be uncomfortable. Unless you are flying business.
Besides the fact that you will learn to sleep in a tiny space, you will experience the feeling of being alone in the middle of nowhere and, at the same time, together with other hundreds of people, all feeling the same.
11 Stay at a luxury hotel
As a true advocate of frugality, living a sustainable life and vegan lifestyle, I see no point in paying extra for a bed to spend the night.
But at least once in your lifetime, treat yourself, if you have the means, and experience the softest bed linen, huge bathroom and best service. It gives you something to look up to or at least to compare.
12 Go to an amusement park
What I really want to suggest is to ditch any fear you might have and get on that roller coaster (or whichever thing that scares you).
I always thought I would never enjoy a visit to an amusement park until I lost my voice screaming in Tivoli, the famous amusement park in Copenhagen. Would I do it again? Any day.
13 Ride an ATV
Talking about adrenaline rush, riding an ATV is another source of extreme feelings and can also get you to places that cars won’t.
I didn’t drove the ATV, I was only the passenger and the driver loved to hear me screaming, but it was exciting, I guess. And fast.
14 Scale to the summit
Hike, see mountains, don’t stop until you reach the summit. The views are always worth it. And the exercise is always good for your body.
Next time you hear friends planning a hike, ask to join them. It could turn out to be one of your best memories. It happened to me when I joined a group to hike up to the highest mountain peak in Romania. I still tell that story to all my friends.
If you can, give something back to the world. Give something back to the society. Give it your time and attention, your kindness and your care.
There’s no greater feeling in the world other than the feeling you get when doing good.
We call it altruism but I think it’s the foundation of our world. Do more of that.
Work with an NGO, volunteer in less developed countries, work with children, and people in need. Teach English if you can, or just help out. Listen to them. Try to understand. Take it in.
I worked as a volunteer in Turkey and Austria. I was working with children and teenagers, having the position of a social worker. These were two similar but also very different experiences, and I recommend it to all young adults.
16 Camp in the wilderness
Get far away from the city, and camp. Spend a night in complete silence. Listen to nature. And don’t be afraid, because we’re part of the wilderness too.
But if a thunderstorm starts, get inside or in the car. After a Googling session while trapped near Warsaw in a camping park during a thunderstorm, near a pond, getting in the car was the best option. If you don’t believe it, I have it on camera, and the vlog is on Youtube.
17 Stay at a homestay
While I mostly travel on a budget, homesteads are a way to save money, but also a way to get to know locals and their families.
Most of the times, they are much friendlier than the staff you meet at the local 5-star hotel. Sure, there is less comfort, but you can’t put a price on human connection. I would guess this was the original Airbnb.
18 Join a cooking class
I am not a foodie, but there’s no better way of getting to know the local culture of a region than learning how to cook their food.
Try to find a local family and ask them all your question about their culture and food. That’s what I did in India (this is me cooking Indian food) and I recommend this experience to anyone when visiting a new country. Remember that for most countries (if not all), the entire culture revolves around food.
19 Challenge your comfort zone
It’s hard to explain what the comfort zone is for each of us, but I would say that whenever you feel stuck and unsatisfied, yet too lazy or unmotivated to do something to change that feeling, then you are in a bad comfort zone.
For me, it was an office job that I quit after almost 1 year and a half, and all thanks to moving abroad. It was a decision that brought a lot of uncertainty into my life, but looking back, I can see I had nothing to lose.
The point is to do something you think you are afraid of doing. Travel alone or start a new job. Maybe start a business. Maybe jump our of a plane (however that sport is called). No great idea (or story) ever came from being stuck in the comfort zone.
I stand as a tangible example. My story and the entire philosophy of this blog was born when I got out of my comfort zone. Look at me, I’m still alive, right? So follow Nike’s advice and Just do It.
20 Do a thing that scares you
Maybe this is another way of saying to get out of your comfort zone, but I am talking more about fears. Some people are afraid of water while others are afraid of heights.
What do you fear? It’s time to address that fear. Conquer it. There’s an immense sense of power on the other side. But don’t do anything stupid. Please!
My fear was to completely submerge underwater. Again, here I am, alive and well.
21 Travel to a lesser-known destination
Paris has seen most of us, and has less and less excitement to offer each time a new tourists steps out of a plane.
Set for yourself a new goal to discover a new culture and people, of a smaller country, or a far away region.
Go where others think it’s dangerous and discover that social media has been lying to you.
See the real world, not just the touristic setups.
22 Try yoga
Too often we dismiss certain things before we understand what that thing is, and I believe this applies to yoga way too often.
Try yoga. It’s good for the body and for your soul. Shut up and try it.
23 Help a stranger
The better world we envision is build on the actions we take today and the examples we give to the future generation.
If you see someone who needs help, help them. Buy their lunch, hold their hand, help them carry their stuff. Be kind. Don’t ask for anything in return. Don’t forget to smile.
24 Spend a day without technology
You know that spending too much time looking at a screen is bad for you, but still, you do it.
I do it, too.
But try to spend a day without technology at least once in your lifetime. Who knows what grand idea will pop into your head.
25 Listen to someone’s story
Too often we fight over talking time when we are in conversations. Those aren’t conversations, but rather two monologues held at the same time.
As simple as it seems, keep your mouth shut and listen.
Listen to the older people you meet in your journeys. Listen to their stories, and be genuinely interested.
The best heritage we have is our power to tell stories, but we need to listen before we can pass it along.
26 Have a job that you love
What’s the point to have a job that you hate?
Quit and get a new one.
Expand your career opportunities, meet new people, tell them what you love doing and be open for whatever comes your way. Sometimes, things happen in a way that you least expect.
27 Get lost
I mean physically lost. If you’re a control freak (like I am) this will sound like complete madness, but trust me.
There’s no better (and faster) way to develop social and orientation skills.
As a child, I was secretly dreaming of getting lost in a new city, just to see if I was able to find my way back. It must have been my intuition telling me to start developing my social skills.
28 Live your life as you want to live
Another point that sounds easy, but is hard to do.
Learn to say No and to spend more time doing what you like doing. Spend time with people you like. There’s no secret, it’s just the small, everyday decisions.
Decide how you like to live, and put yourself first. That will make you happier and you will be kinder with those around you.
29 Invest money
You either spend your life hoping you had more money, or you try to invest some and learn how this whole investing thing works.
I’m not saying that money will solve your problems, but it’s one component of our lives.
Try your luck, or however you call it. You might discover you are an investment genius. If you are, please consider my blog for your next donation. Thank you!
30 Watch a sunrise with someone you love
I find sunrises and sunsets to be magical moments, and we are blessed to be able to witness them every day, no matter where we are in this big world.
If you have a loved one to share this magical moment, then you are truly a happy person. And by loved one I don’t necessarily mean you partner. It can be a family member or your best friend.
31 Tell your parents how much you love them
Some love their parents, and some have a love and hate relationship with them. No matter which may be the case, tell them you love them (because you know that deep down, you do love them).
Tell them before it’s too late.
32 Attend a live music concert
Music is food for our souls. We don’t all listen to the same kind of music, but what we all have in common is that we love music. Attending a live music is the next level and gets you together will other people that love that same music as much as you do.
33 Have a saving’s account
Try to save some money from your monthly income.
You never know when a pandemic will strike, and you might lose your job or contracts.
34 Learn an art
Try to learn how to play an instrument, sing or paint. Perhaps try to create something using your bare hands.
Who knows what talents you keep locked inside of you.
35 Work a minimum wage job
Be the person who works with their hands, or who has small tasks, and you will never again mistreat a person, regardless of their job.
I think that a lot of our issues start from the lack of understanding. We are fast at judging and slow at showing empathy.
36 Holiday with your friends
Go on holiday, have the best time and share those best moments with your friends. That’s how you create life-lasting memories.
37 Forgive someone who doesn’t deserve forgiveness
Forgiveness is hard but is also beneficial for your soul. It’s not about accepting, but about choosing to be happy even in a less unfortunate situation.
38 Write down your goals
Goals only become goals once you write them.
If it’s only in your head, then it’s called an idea.
39 Visit a therapist
We all have things we want to talk about, but don’t have anyone to talk about them with. That’s until you have visited a therapists.
Try it at least once. But give it a real try, and go there with an open heart. It’s all up to you to be better and feel better.
I believe this should a compulsory task for anyone, as least once in their lifetime. Of course, the faster you go and talk to a therapist, the better for everyone.
40 Live alone
Living alone is part of growing up and you can’t fully get to understand yourself until you have been completely on your own.
The understanding always starts from withing.
41 Be dirt poor
Without feeling and being poor you can’t really understand what poor means.
And it’s not all about money. You will appreciate different kind of things after knowing what being poor feels like.
42 Be single for a while
Relationships are great, but they can be hell on Earth if you’re in the wrong one. I’m talking about all kinds of relationships.
Just be single. Spend time with yourself, by yourself. Accept yourself.
If you don’t know yourself and accept yourself, how can you expect others to do it?
43 Stand up for something
Just because everyone else shares the same opinion doesn’t mean you have to do the same. Do your research, ask questions and stand up for something that it’s important to you.
You might not get a lot of support, but you’re doing it because you believe in your principles, not for social fame. Who knows, it might start a whole new thing and you could be the leader of it.
44 Keep a journal
Moments fly by every day, and without a record of the most important ones, they might get forever forgotten. And we might fall into the trap of repeating our mistakes.
Writing stuff down helps with personal evaluations, opening new perspectives over situations and finding new solutions to problems.
But most importantly, writing things down helps with your emotional side, helps cultivate your patience and acknowledging self-worth.
45 Fast for a day
Many cultures have a different way of calling fasting, and different ways of doing it. But the point is that it’s a habit present in all major cultures and religions (that I know of).
That means that there must be something good about it.
You might not get to fast for a complete day from the start, but I believe this is a practice that does good to your body and soul. And that’s why you have to try it at least once.
46 Talk to a stranger on a bus or a train
I grew up scared of talking to strangers because the grownups were saying that strangers are dangerous.
But after all my travels, I have countless of positive examples. And I have so many stories just because I decided to not listen to the grownups in my head and talk to people on the bus, train or plane.
47 Try to live like a minimalist
Many of us were born in the capitalist era, in which we are ruled by the economy which never sleeps and always has to produce something for you to buy.
Owning stuff is nice, but most stuff is useless. Most things don’t do much for you other than occupy space, time, and it wastes your money.
Try to bring to a minimum all those useless purchases, if only for a month. And then shift your attention towards more meaningful things, such as family and friends.
48 Eat something you have never eaten before
Don’t be so picky with food.
Food is meant to feed the body, and as I said before, it stands at the core of many great cultures. Try to understand a new culture by also tasting their food.
49 Join a pilgrimage group
It’s not about religion or personal beliefs (although it could be), but I see great power in the human bonds you can create when sharing such a journey.
I once joined a 16-hour pilgrimage (that’s how long it took me), of non-stop walking, thought rain and mud, a four peak hike, together with other few thousand people. It made me realised just how close and good-hearted people are.
50 Perform on a stage
Life is all about emotions and there’s no better moment to feel them all than when you walk up on a stage.
But life is also about mastering your emotions, and once you get up there, you will notice how hard is to do that. If only, this experience will make you understand others who perform on stages and make you judge them less.
51 Love yourself
The hardest thing in the world is to be kind to yourself, accept yourself and love yourself.
I intentionally left this to be the last thing on the list of the things your need to try at least once in your lifetime, because you have to do a lot of the above to get there. Or, at least, I did.
Start small and work your way from there. Say more often “It’s ok” when starting to judge yourself. Most of the things we screw up are manageable and easy to fix.
Oh and no matter how you feel, remember you are not alone. But whatever you do, don’t quit. Don’t quit on yourself.